Do you wish your reality was different?

Apr 24, 2024 | Random stuff | 0 comments


When you look at your life, how does it make you feel?

Do you feel joy and contentment?

I’d love to hear you say yes.

What if it is more like ‘sort of’ or even not really? That’s okay too, as long as you’re happy to accept your life feeling like that.

If you want something different, that’s okay too.

You see, you shape your reality. Does that surprise you?


It’s true. Your reality is formed by the choices you make and the opportunities you take. It’s about staying alert to what’s happening around you and understanding the outcomes of your actions, whether they’re good or bad.

Inner critic, challenge

Certainly, life throws curveballs that we can’t control. Just look at the world we’re in today. How we respond results in the difference between merely surviving or thriving, feeling stuck or moving forward.

The ability to change lies in your hands and it begins with small steps.

If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got. Life only changes when you do something different.

And remember, choosing a different path isn’t always the easy route. It’s not necessarily following the crowd or meeting expectations. If you want change, you must start by changing your actions.

Take small steps to make life feel different now. Take small steps to embark on your new journey. Take small steps to begin.

I encourage you to assess your reality. Is it what you want it to be?

If yes, then keep going.

If not, believe me when I say you can alter it.

Dig deep to find the courage and take those small steps to create the reality you crave.

It all starts now.


Recognise that where you are now is a result of your choices. This also means you have the power to change your reality.

Eliminate Excuses

Excuses hinder progress. It’s easy to blame others or circumstances. Instead, commit to change and let that be your driving force.

Take Ownership

You’re in charge of what happens next and the steps you take. Until you accept this and take it seriously, nothing will change.

Do Whatever It Takes

It won’t be effortless. There will be moments when life feels even tougher. That’s your chance to reflect on your journey and plan your next move. Focus on the best way forward.



Falling down isn’t a reason to give up. When you stumble, it’s up to you to rise and keep moving. You might need to take a different path. It’s about never giving up unless you decide your destination isn’t worth it!

If your today doesn’t match what you want it to be, seize this moment to change it. You have the ability to make it happen, as long as you’re committed to the change.

Are you ready for change?


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