What if you could have the life you dream of?

Apr 27, 2022 | Random stuff


Do you really know what you want?

Of course you know what you want. Why wouldn’t you?

So what is stopping you from getting there?

The answer is you.

Does this shock you?

Are you surprised?

Do you disagree?

No one else can make us do anything. We are solely responsible for our actions. So if you know what you want and you really want it, then all it takes is taking that first step towards it.

It can be that simple. We really can have what we want.

The problem is, sometimes we actually don’t know what we want. And then we’re surprised when after searching, for what seems like a very long time, we still don’t know.

Time, self aware

It’s all because we’re focusing on the wrong thing. We’re focusing on not knowing. What if you changed your focus? What if you accepted that you do know what you want? 

What if it’s just because you’re scared to admit what you want? That’s the real question. That’s the real obstacle that is standing in the way of you having what you want.

The good news is, and as you know, the only person who is stopping you from having what you want is you. Therefore all you have to do is step out of your own way. Yes, I know you may have heard this before, but it is the true.

The thing is, until you realise and accept what happens next is in your hands nothing will change.

You have a choice. You can either accept your life as is or you can decide to do something differently, which probably feels scary. The choice is yours.

I invite you to do something different. Approach it with excitement and be openminded as this will allow you to see a lot more of what is available to you then if you’re scared.

Try following these steps

Stop focusing on the wrong thing

It’s about getting yourself in the right frame of mind. It’s easier to focus on what is wrong rather than what could be right. So I ask you to simply stop thinking about the negative stuff so that you can give yourself space to focus on what will best serve you.

Accept you do know

What you are searching for is not ‘out there’. ‘They’ do not have the answers. You have the answers. As soon as you accept this, you can then start to believe it. Then you will be in a much better place to decide what’s next.

Face your fear

What keeps us stuck most of the time is the fear and so we do things to keep us feeling safe. What would happen if you faced your fear? Maybe start with some journalling to understand what you are frightened of and what is keeping you from where you want to go? 

Remove the obstacle

Once you know what is holding you back you can take steps to remove it. Just small steps that you know are achievable. Just imagine your obstacle is a brick wall and each step is like removing one brick at a time.


Refocus your attention

You can now focus your attention on what is next. Dream big and feel how wonderful that life will be. It’s all about deciding where you want to go and how you’re going to get there?

You really can have what you want you just need to be ready to go after it, accept it and then live it. It’s not about anyone else. It’s all about you. It’s not selfish and you shouldn’t feel guilty. There is nothing to be scare of if this is what you want.

Are you ready to have the life you want?



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